An idea is like a virus, resilient, highly
contagious. The smallest seed of an idea can grow. It can grow
to define or destroy you.
:
Christopher Nolan
How fit this dialogue was, I didn’t realize until that
sleepless night of January, 2018. I was under a new roof with a bunch of my
friends. Rolling on my sides, I couldn’t do but admire the life people were
living, nay, enjoying there. I was awestruck with their charisma, their dorms,
their camaraderie and what not. Even the place, that I have been in just for a
few hours, had left me astonished.
That place was Joka.
I was a participant of their annual cultural fest, Carpe
Diem.
It was my 4th sem of Engineering when my institute
received the mail of invitation from IIM C. We were fairly excited, because it
was our chance of exploring the beautiful beaches of Bengal without going heavy
on our pockets. That mail kickstarted the planning of our week long trip. A
mail, that I didn’t know at that time, was going to give my empty life a goal.
Lying on the floor of Lake View Hostel, or the LVH as it’s
known, I started to wonder. Wonder what it is like to be a part of one of the
most desirous bschools of India. How proud must they feel when donning that
hood of IIM C. The only way to know was to be on that side. And that’s when the
idea of writing CAT first came into my mind. And it came to stay.
Back to my campus, I found myself abusing the internet for
gathering every bit of information I could get about CAT and IIMs. The target
was simple, to know what it takes to get into C and gauge my chances of it. The
results were flabbergasting. With my profile, GEM Fresher, 89/89/69, yeah short
by 1 in all 3 :( , C was like that ad of Gillette. It was the best I could get.
And it was all I wanted. It was like even destiny wants me to get in.
The pattern and syllabus looked quite manageable at first
glance. Maths was never a pain for me. Solving conundrums is my hobby, it ought
to help me with LRDI, is what I thought. The only thing I needed to work on
religiously was VARC, and soon I will achieve that crazy target of 99.7,
earning me a ticket to the wat-pi of C.
The relationship of this godforsaken language and me had
always been disappointing. Born in Gujarat, the only language I was in contact
with till I was 9 was Gujarati. Then came that one day when my father’s company
decided to move him to Ghaziabad, (U.P.).
New place, new people, a completely new language. Not the
conditions to make a child feel comfortable. My parents decided to homeschool
me, the responsibility of my elder siblings, until I learn Hindi enough to join
a school comfortably. This was the period when I unknowingly refined my brain
to be able to learn things without outside aid, something that has always been
rewarding to me. I kept learning Maths and Science in those years, with a bit
of English and Hindi here and there.
Then came the time. As per my age, I was supposed to join 6th
standard. My father made a list of some good schools in the city. Every school
rejected me. I had to join a small school that ran in a single 2-storey
building. Certainly not a great place to furnish your language skills. Even the
teachers weren’t competent when I think about it now, let alone the students.
I
switched to a great school in 11th, the time when I started
preparing for JEE, again focusing only on PCM.
English was my first 12th board exam, and I had
improved to say the least. But god had some plans. I fell ill the night before
and thus I ended up sleeping for a good 1 hour during my exam. Scored 70 in
English, 90+ in rest of the 4 subjects.
English was always a horrible experience, to sum it up.
Staring at the screen, everything came back to me in a
flashback. I had never taken any tuition classes and cleared JEE without any
coaching, but this time I wasn’t ready to take chances. In a hasty decision, I
joined TIME (spoiler: mistake). And this journey officially kickstarted.
Attended the classes, realized that QA and LRDI came natural
to me. The VARC sheets ate of all of my confidence, add an incompetent teacher,
and you get a hefty wasted amount. Low-key realized that CAT ain’t my cup of
tea and moved on.
TIME for mocks. (Yeah horrible pun, keep reading.)
Gave my first mock without any preparation. Scored 30s in
VARC, OA 80s %ile. Analyzed the paper. Some hours later, it struck me. It was a
proper eureka moment. I was rejoicing with hope.
I had cracked the code
of VARC.
The idea was fairly simple, this section doesn’t test your
language, it tests your reasoning. Have an average vocabulary, employ an above
average reasoning skill to eliminate options and you can nail all the
option-based questions. Parajumbles were left on the shoulders of my luck.
I did enough questions in the meantime to attempt my second
mock with a bit of confidence. The results of Aimcat 2024 were, 46,44,38 = 128,
97.45%ile
And I never looked back.
April marked the end of my 6th semester. We have
the option of skipping our 7th sem for a 6-month internship, and
mine began in Mid-May. I bought Simcats at this point and now, I was completely
relying on mocks for my preparation.
On weekdays, I used to reach home by 7, and analyzed the
mocks from 10-1. Weekends were utilized for attempting the mocks. I had joined several
Facebook and Whatsapp groups and I used to solve aspirants’ doubts during my
working hours. These questions were diverse as well as challenging, and a major
contributor in my final score.
Aimcat 2022 was my first 99, Simcat 6 saw a single digit rank
and Simcat 8 was my breakthrough in top-3. What baffling was, the foe had
become my friend. I used to score highest in VARC, with usually 32+ attempts
and 70+ score. DILR was highly fickle, and QA was the backbone. Roadblocks were
there obviously, but it’s life, ‘Sachin bhi 0 pe out hota tha’, this
helped me sleep.
You receive dozens of congratulatory messages, but the one
who sent you ‘You can do it’, when you were nothing but a part of a huge crowd,
is your true friend. Yes Siddhant, I am talking about you. I still
remember how you used to motivate me on late night chats after each mock gone
wrong. If you weren’t the guy you are, I don’t think I would be writing this
now. Enjoy your next 2 years at SIBM Pune. Then there was Harshit, who
kept saying that I am made for CAT. I could always feel that this guy wants to
see me successful. He truly believed in me. I still remember how he got high
and made random but on point stories to help me fill the questionnaire of IIFT
interview round. I submitted it at 11:53 XD
I bore the pressure of my internship, mocks and expectations
combined with fear for a few good weeks. But later it crushed me, broke me like
a twig. I couldn’t sleep at night. Randomly a drop or two flowed down my eyes
while I was at work. My mental peace had gone for a toss. I knew what I had to
do.
September first week it was. I took a train to my college,
from there my friends and I took a 3-day road trip to a nearby hill station.
This was a factory reset for my mind. I was ready to fight again. Within a
week, I was back at my internship.
Around this time, this journey gave me 2 precious gifts. They
came in my life uninvited and stayed, stayed to make me dependent on their
existence. Swarnima, who sometimes stayed awake till 4 so I have someone
to talk to during my study breaks, and Mohit ( @MohitMehar ). I mean it
when I say, I couldn’t have asked for a better bro than you. You calmed me down
when I was at my most vulnerable. Jaldi Milenge, bhai.
October started, and I had almost static mock scores. I was
elated, nothing can go wrong now, or so I thought. And then my life hit me
with, “Baitho beta, abhi bohot kuch samajhna hai zindagi me”.
My brother was going for a love marriage, and indubitably
there were complications. But everything fell into place eventually and it was
time to find the auspicious date.
I still remember the horror when that pundit uttered 12th
November. The next date was months ahead and it was risky, for some better
left unsaid reasons, to delay the marriage. My parents asked me to move to my
hostel, prepare for CAT, come back to attend the wedding and leave again soon
after. That day I had to choose between taking the load off my family or focus
on my career.
CAT to agle saal bhi aayega.
I dropped my pen in mid-Oct. Maybe gave a mock or two in the
next month. But that time sure flew like the golden snitch. 15th
November, I took a flight to my college. Gave a mock, scored well below
expectations, as expected.
Gave another a few days later, and my last on 21st.
Scores increased, and so did my confidence. I was mentally prepared for the
D-Day.
I had set my target. VARC 80+, LRDI 50+, QA 70+, OA 200+
translating to 99.9+. Spoiler again, not a single one was achieved.
The big day.
Mine was the 2nd slot, and I was oblivious about
the morning slot. I didn’t want to be prejudiced. VARC was overall tough, but
the peeps of 2nd slot would remember about a particular RC,
something about ancient history that was significantly ungraspable. Murphy
smiled at a distance, that was my first RC. I spent 5 minutes, attempted a
single question of that RC, and had to move on. RCs were my forte, and leaving
4 of them was certainly not a start I needed. I lost some confidence, well more
than some, still somehow managed to attempt the rest of questions.
Attempted 5 sets in LRDI, though as it turned out, I had made
a blunder in one costing that whole set. Good thing was I didn’t know about it
at that time. QA was good, no regrets there, leaving aside a calculation mistake.
The results. (Raw/Scaled)
VARC : 73/72.5,
99.68%ie
LRDI : 45/49,
98.58%ile
QA : 68/67.5,
99.40%ile
OA : 186/189, 99.83%ile
It wasn’t 99.9+ but still I know C’s call was coming so I was
overjoyed.
Profile : GEM Fresher (89/89/69)
Calls received : C,FMS,XL BM,MDI,IIT B, NITIE, IIFT, S, CAP
C’s was my best interview of the season. Everything was going
in my favor. Whoever read my interview was impressed and affirmative that I
will make it. Everything was too good to be true. All I needed to do now was to
wait. Wait for that word, ‘Congratulations’ to appear on my screen. I had
started dreaming about my Joka life. The wait was killing me.
XL, MDI and IIT B interviews were also decent. Didn’t appear
in S, tanked IIFT and CAP. NITIE, well the interview was just a formality.
13th May,2020
Notification : Calcutta out.
This is the moment. Everything I have done in the last two
and a half years converges to this. Soon this page will load and I will run to
my parents to tell them the great news.
The page loaded.
“We regret to inform you…”
No, this can’t be happening. Everyone was so sure that I will
make it. I must’ve entered my credentials wrong. I re-entered them, thrice, and
still couldn’t digest that I didn’t make it. Not even the waitlist. It takes
only a moment, just a moment to shatter years of hopes and dreams. A few
minutes of conversation with some exhausted minds to gauge your life’s hard
work. A few numbers who you got hardcoded to yourself at the time when you
needed permission to go out and play will be decided to shape your adult life.
I always knew my chances, what calls am I going to receive, but hope is a
dangerous thing. Once you hope, everything is possible.
I walked to a nearby park, called Mohit, and cried my heart
out. Even he was dejected that day for the same reason, but the way he consoled
me while hiding his own grief, I am forever indebted to him. He reminded me
that only a dream has broken, not our lives.
Took me a while to get sane again. XL also rejected me. FMS
waitlisted me at 183. MDI took me with open arms. Rest doesn’t matter now.
10 years from now, I will think of this time and smile. Smile
because it will remind me that with sheer will and a bit of luck, I can do
anything. I can achieve anything that may sound unattainable at first, all I
need to do is start. This time will remind me to set my goals high, but be
prepared for the lowest lows. It will remind me that voyage is indeed better
than the destination.
Well this was all I wanted to say about CAT. This was a journey
that made me believe in myself. A journey that introduced me to some best souls
of this planet. A journey that taught me some important life lessons. A journey
that made my family proud. This was a journey to remember.
Signing off,
Harendra Parihar.
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